Questions & Answers

Q. Please tell me how you wish to be addressed?
A. Ma'am or Tearanny to submissives. To fellow Dominants, Christian.

Q. What do you consider to be your greatest feature?

A. My charisma coupled with wisdom. After that, I suppose my eyes.

Q. We would be surprised to learn that you have never?
A. Shared this much of myself at one time. Normally, it takes time for me to open up.

Q. The best advice you have ever gotten?
A. Be true to myself, even if that means that you don't make money.
I am the one that lives with my daily realities, no one else. While it is lovely to recline into an expensive king sized bed at the end of the day, money doesn't lull you to sleep. My conscience however, does just that.

Q. You are totally addicted to?

A. Monster energy drinks & video games.
Yes, I know. This is not at all what you expected to hear from a Domina. But, Im doing my very best to be honest with you in this interview, not simply feed into a fantasy. I require caffeine to function; I'm an addict. As far as video games, it is something that I enjoy, relaxes me, and allows me to interact with my fellow geeks enjoying myself. I'm on Xbox Live.

Q. You never leave home with out?
A. In my purse, I carry my wallet, a tape measure, a mini mag lite, p38, an art pad, a set of drawing pencils, and my glasses.

Q. You wish you could be more?
A. Do I wish I could be more? No. I am MORE than enough for myself and most everyone I have ever met.

Q. How long have you been in the lifestyle?
A. I have been in the lifestyle my ENTIRE adult life. If I'm completely honest with you, a bit before I reached adulthood. As I was sexually deviant from the start, just not aware of the "lifestyle" and all it entailed with labels.

Q. Would you consider your childhood a normal one?
A. My childhood was amazing. My parents are still married & still in love. I am blessed.

Q. What was the last book you read?
A. Nature vs Nurture

Q. Do you have a favorite movie?
A. I love movies. Choosing one is like picking a favorite child. To name a few; The Dark Crystal, The Secretary, Fright Night: original & remake, Horror, Occult, Scary flicks, especially zombie movies… of all walks! (get it?) I share my flavor of the minute porns on my twitter feed. ;)

Q. Do you consider yourself a Pro Domme or lifestyle domme or a combination of both?
A. I consider myself a lifestyle Domina that just happens to make her living via professional domination. ☺

Q. If you had to pick one word that describes the feeling you get when you are topping someone what would that word be?
A. Freedom.

Q. What is your general view of men?
A. I find men utterly fascinating. Some are so simple in their needs and requirements. Yet, they seek to complicate their lives by denying themselves, needs, wants. They parade around in their daily lives pretending to be something they feel society requires them to be vs being true to themselves. I almost pity them at times.

Q. Was there a particular moment that you can recall when you realized the power you had over men?
A. I matured quite early, at twelve I looked sixteen, by thirteen I was keenly aware of a woman's power in this world. The old joke comes to mind, checks and balances.

Q. Does dominating another bring you sexual pleasure? If so how and why?

A. It's far deeper than just "sexual".

Q. What books or magazine would you recommend to others?

A. Different Loving, The Loving Dominant, The ethical slut, and several others…

Q. Do you have a day job?
A. Yes, I do.

Q. Do you have friends in the lifestyle?
A. I have leather family. Most of my friends are invested in the lifestyle. Those that are not in the lifestyle are still kinky in some form or fashion. Most disclose their kinks, as I am their confidant.

Q. Have you ever been to play party?
A. Yes. In fact, I host play parties with my lifestyle friends.

Q. Have you played in Public before?
Do you dominate or humiliate in Public?
A. Yes, I have. Yes, I dominate in public. I am very cautious with public humiliation.

Q. What is the biggest mistake a submissive man makes when first approaching a dominant woman?
A. Apparently, I could write an entire essay on this particular question. Lets see, mistaking my kindness & patience for weakness. Mistaking the act of submission for personal weakness. Confusing polite conversation with submission itself.

Q. When you read an email from a new submissive what do you look for?
A. If they were capable of following the detailed instructions that I laid out on my Kinks page. After that, the general tone of the letter comes into play. Matching kinks are always a delightful find… which shouldn’t be too hard considering my own! Laughing

Q. Are you straight, lesbian, or bi-sexual?
A. I am bi-sexual.

Q. Do you cuckold your submissives with other lovers?
A. Yes, I have been known to do such with my personal submissives.